Everything will be all right

As true and/or logical the contents of this header may seem in a given situation when you are an outsider, it often is very unpleasant having to hear this at the moment where you find yourself in trouble. Your personality can interpret this in two ways: as a comforting thing that no matter how bad, endless etc. the situation may appear to him at this moment in time, this will pass. Nice, when your personality does not see his way out at that very moment.

However - and this is much more common - it can be interpreted as well as an attack on the personality interpretation that you find yourself in a very unpleasant, painful, seemingly endless or otherwise unpleasant situation, and you do not know as yet how to change this. On top of that, you believe you face a series of unpleasantness to come, and you do not have a solution to make these more 'pleasant'. In this case, the saying in the header is nothing more than a huge attack on your personality, his interpretation of a situation, his assumptions about what is to follow, and belittling of what it is he still has to move through, so this automatically implies that he is weakened in relation to the person who seems to be less pessimistic about it, and seems to be able to know and/or do better. On top of that, it emphasizes the idea of 'wrong' of the present situation. No wonder this personality will use defence mechanisms to deal with this, and now the opposite effect of what was intended (offering perspective) has occurred.

The same applies to all kinds of likewise expressions, like 'later you will see this as valuable', 'be strong', 'every cloud has a silver lining', 'later you will be happy with this', 'later you will thank me for this/see that I am right', 'time will make things easier for you', etc. Now is the solution to all this to no longer use these expressions? That in itself is not the point, it is not so much about the words you use, as it is about the inspiration that lies at the basis. Each expression made by your personality, in whatever way, will call forth an interpretation and 'thus' a reaction. When you are an outsider and want to offer true inspiration, then ask for it of your inner Self. You will notice that you will both benefit from whatever it is that is brought into the contact, you yourself will be able to use it for increasing Awareness as well.