BE your Self
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The essences of your personality and your Self in two convenient columns


To begin with, do realize that your personality, as opposed to what you have taught yourself to believe, does nót want what is best for 'you', and especially pay attention to the first items of this overview, since that is somewhat the most important key to gain true insight, no matter how illogical it may seem to you at first sight. You can rediscover all this within yourself.

your personality states your Self knows
you are weak, vulnerable and separated you are not completely separated, universal and cannot be hurt
basic feeling fear and guilt basic experience free, peace, joy, familiar
is everything your Self is not and has to make you forget about your Self in order to be believable is itself and complete and always present, all you have to do is focus your awareness on it to experience it again. Can perceive your personality without 'believing' in it.
to reach this point (= point 1!) he has to control, be in charge, pay attention, prevent, distract you from your Self etc. you need do nothing to be your Self
when this is not successful, you need to take precautions so that you will feel weak, vulnerable and separated again. * always works
important goal: prevent you become too much aware of point 1** no other goal than being itSelf
shift to Self is unpleasant shift to Self is pleasant like coming home
short breaks into 'pleasant' are allowed, otherwise you would not be willing to keep on repeating this, however not too much/too long is always and continuous
constant attention needed to maintain this, since it is only made up, yet very convincing and complex. Being is enough and all-encompassing and you need do nothing for this
variation in feelings after interpretation/judgement one experience, always the same
knowledge and interpretations knowing and inspiration
thinking knowing
doing Being
use everything to confirm this image nothing needed to confirm this
made itself and can make itself disappear also did not make itself and cannot determine what it is
complex simple
control inspiration
lack, specialness, having at the expense of freely sharing yourself increases this for everybody, yourself included.
body as a goal/end in itself mental, body when used as communication device only
needs time to create events no events needed, timeless/continuous
you seem the only one who cannot make this 'work' for everybody the same and always 'right'
attempting to get what you do not have everything of true value is already within you

* not succeeding here means: when it becomes too pleasant, and you may count being your Self among this. This item is the basis for physical and mental issues through pléasant situations

** a.o. through having you thínk that he means well for you. However, when it becomes more clear and you do not have sufficient grip to prevent this from dawning on your mind, he will react (grump, mourn, irritation, blame, physical and/or mental issues) to reestablish this once more



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