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Inheritance

Not only because of everything which is described in laws, your personality has started to see an inheritance as a 'right' on something. Within logical family relations he often does so even when this person is still very much alive, and yet he thinks about the inheritance he can expect, and what he could use it for. It is often seriously reckoned with in certain ways. And so this evolves into a sort of claim, which is justified in the eyes of your personality, on somebody else's' possessions and before you know it, he now sees their possessions as something of himself which the other person should somewhat be 'entitled to use'.

When the moment comes where the inheritance is really due, it is no surprise to find that the expectations of at least the heirs, who have had their personal thoughts during the previous years, are likely to not be parallel to each other, and often enough also differ from the person who has created the inheritance and may have left guidelines for sharing, or it may turn out that certain possessions have been given away, money spent or given away. These differences may be about the total value of the inheritance, but especially about the expectations each of the heirs has created in his own mind over the past years on value and sharing.

All in all this turns out to be a great subject for your personality to operate on, and what could have been a good time for transferring your relationship with the deceased into a new light, is now highly overshadowed by the rights, greed, attachments and other personality interpretations and not seldom also some form of rejection against the deceased, simply because you feel rejected, not supported or left out because the inheritance does not meet your personalities expectations. Consciously face all this when it comes to mind, and yet ask yourself whether you really want to deal with this situation in this way, now as well as when the inheritance is due. Since there is the alternative of asking your inner Self to inspire you. And because that is also the level where you are not completely separated from others, especially this kind of situations can be used for practical experiences. Consciously forgive yourself and all others involved as well, which will help you clear the way for your inner Self.

That inheritances, dealt with through personalities, have the potential to effortlessly lead to great family-issues and members drifting apart, is well-known. That your personality believes he needs to take care of your interests here, and that when you do not follow this nothing good can come of it, can be no surprise. What your inner Self will come up with, will be a surprise, because it is likely that you have no experience with this so far. So what stops you from letting yourself be surprised by dealing with this in a new way? This whole site is dedicated to this new way, so browse around for practical inspiration.



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