Let go of responsibility

Once you realize that your inner Self is the alternative for your personality, this automatically implies certain things are 'true'. Like when you realize that your inner Self can be in charge of your life and you find yourself wanting to focus on that, then it automatically is true as well that your personality no longer is responsible. Understanding this enables you to let go of a lot of work and energy, since until then your personality has put tremendous effort into taking his responsibilities and then attempt to make things work according to his points of views.

You now can tell yourself this is no longer necessary, your personality is no longer responsible for ... And what you fill in there may vary from very practical issues to more personal ones:

My personality is no longer responsible for:
- have my pc function properly
- turning this dinner party into a success
- finding an appropriate gift
- make a worldview 'true'
- prevent there is silence in your head without any thoughts
- filling your days
- etc.

You can now tell your personality calmly and very to the point that you no longer expect this from him. So: I no longer expect my personality to have my pc function properly. When my pc has to work properly I fully trust my inner Self to inspire me on how, when and eventually who will help me to take care of this.

This of course will take some time to adjust to by your personality and let go, since he has acted his whole life like he was the one in charge. However, this does not mean that the insight itself is less true. By positioning it as 'no longer' responsible, you help prevent your personality tending to resist this too much, since it implies that you do not question the past, only focus on the present and future. On the other hand, this will also bring you a sense of peace, since the tensions your personality so often creates frequently are about insecurities whether things will work out fine, or about attempting to make things work.

Remind yourself that it is safe to find your inner Self being in charge of your life, since this aspect is much more 'you' than the personality layers you created to cover this awareness. And your inner Self functions in a not-completely-separated-from-others way, not only in your life, but in every other persons' life as well. And its inspiration always comes effortlessly and accompanied by a great sense of peace, certainty and Knowing, whereas that of your personality comes with effort, tension, doubt etc.