Love

Your personality will use virtually everything in your life to strengthen itself. And because he thinks that you are a body, he will use that too to project feelings, a.o. those of which he thinks are love.

There is love for your parents, for your children, for your partner, family and for other people in your life. Let's assume that the love itself is the same, only the way that you express it, varies.

A characteristic when your personality expresses and experiences love, is that somehow bodies are involved. A look, a hand on your shoulder, a hug or some sweet words are accepted ways to express it in many relationships. With your partner, a specific intimate aspect will be added. Adequate response will induce feelings of love in you.

Now in this way, love is a tremendous source of inspiration for your personality. Because now there are many pitfalls. You can be rejected, the timing or the way that you express your affection may not meet the wish of the person involved. What you like, the other person does not have to like (imagine, for example, a stranger hugging you when you meet for the first time), etc. In the course of the years a tremendous amount of standards has been established for personalities: do's and don'ts, how often you should do "it", what you should do or not do to be successfully accepted by the other, actually you only have to open some of the popular magazines or listen to music to see what is meant here. The subject of love remains a hot item.

Love, according to your personality, can be called upon or diminished by what the other person does or does not, by music, circumstances etcetera, at least always something outside yourself. When the subject of your love is absent, it seems that the love has disappeared also, and so you are requested to start missing the other person. Love, to your personality, is only real when it is reflected in one or more of these ways, and as soon as there is something missing, it turns into a source of doubt, guilt and insecurity.

Seen from your inner Self, there is only Love. Love for everyone and everything. Regardless of what the other person says or does (or does not). And does not rely on the presence of someone else. It is in you, always. Remember that when you find yourself trapped in the twisted perception of love from your personality again. Making space to remember your inner Self will bring this love more and more into your awareness. Quiet, unshaken and very familiar.