Why your needs disappear over time

Your personality is the aspect in yourself which is learned, it is a non-natural layer which you put over your inner Self. And since it is not natural, it has to continue to 'do' things in order to give you experiences according to its own mechanism, thus distracting you from your normal state of Awareness. This keeps you busy during the day, should you stop this, then you would simply be your Self again and once you remember that, you simply would not want to return to the meager offerings of your personality. So for your personality, this is a necessity. Personality experiences are for example wanting to go on a vacation or to an attraction park, or wanting another job in order to have 'different experiences', but also things like longing for a romantic evening or attending yoga lessons to want to experience more of this familiar Self.

Once your inner Self is more into your awareness again, you less and less need these experiences which are directly related to circumstances outside yourself. Somewhat like: why would you have need for a train to Amsterdam when you are already ín Amsterdam? There is no logic there anymore. so the more you experience your inner Self as your natural essence during the day, the less you will need personality issues to create experiences which should be 'nice' for your personality. During your process of awareness you will learn to recognize more and more this is so, and that your personality experiences do not bring you anything you prefer over being your Self. So you need do nothing special, since you are your Self all the time.

Your personality is likely to make sure you will experience severe doubts in the beginning of this process, resulting in the idea there is something very wrong with you since everybody else still does these things and gets 'nice' experiences and you no longer do so, have no need for them anymore, or when you still do them, you no longer can get that 'special something' that others seem to be able to get out of it. And according to your personality there definitely is something wrong with yóu now.

Do realize that the more you remember your Self, you are more and more in the place your personality allows you only very brief access to - or simply lets you forget its existence altogether through distracting you.