The same over and over again

When you are a regular reader of these columns, you might get the idea that you are reading a lot of things which look alike. And the good part is: that's right. Becoming aware of your personality is one aspect, and here the variation in input is almost endless, only to create even more variation in output (feelings) and then trying to do something with them. You will notice this is so through the wide variety of subjects in these columns. However, the underlying mechanism of your personality is actually very boring and always the same, you might actually wonder why we have not noticed this before. Each time it's the same old song with the same predictable outcome. Sometimes you attempt to change the input and hope for a different output, another time you attempt to hide the unpleasant output as much as possible, but no matter what creative response you may come up with, it does not change the mechanism in itself a bit.

The solution is actually always the same and simple: become aware of what is really going on, then you are bound to notice that it does not bring you what you are looking for, then let it go, and now there is more mental space available for your inner Self. On this point you will find no variation in the columns. And truly, there is not a single situation to which this does not apply, so you can give up on that right now ;-), you can only try to postpone the moment where you are prepared and willing to face and accept this.