Being very relaxed about being late

Being too late for an appointment is a personality judgment on the 'truth' of appointments, where he - usually based on experience - believes he can predict the outcome (and believes he should avoid this). Join me on how I experience a situation where I allow my inner Self to be in charge of my appointment. Though this does not mean that you will always be in time, it does mean that your experience can be different from the one your personality believes is the only possible one.

I had an appointment with my hairdressers at 15.30 hrs. and had to drop a package with additional service at the post office. I arrived in the city five minutes before the appointed time, and my inspiration told me to drop off the package before I went to the hairdressers at the nearby post office. So I did. There were two people waiting before me, so this 'looks good'. Then the waiting begins, and all in all it took twenty minutes before it was my turn. And all I did was check with my inner Self every now and then whether I still was meant to wait here (which I did not háve to do, but did because this was a new experience for me), and did not receive any inspiration this would not be the case. So I could relax conveniently while waiting, meanwhile not having any need to blame anyone involved.

Over fifteen minutes later than the time set for the appointment, I arrived at Will, my hairdresser. It turned out he was still working with his previous client, so there not only was plenty of time to wash my hair, they even gave me a head massage while doing so (they normally never do this ;-) ). And when it was my turn to have my hair dressed, I did not need to explain anything, I simply was later than the time mentioned in the book, and yet at the same time it was not an issue at all.

So you see: listening to your inner Self is very relaxed, even in this kind of situations!