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Unattainable: how your personality prevents you from starting with these ideas

Success story number one of your personality: do not start to make mental space for your inner Self because (and the list is not complete ;-D ):

  • it is boring
  • it is too much, you will never make it
  • that is unattainable for me
  • this will take years and years, that is too long for me
  • I will not even start with it
  • I do not want to, simply because he or she makes me to
  • it is not my cup of tea
  • this will not bring me anything
  • you need to be a kind of saint for this, and I am not one now, and do not intend to become one
  • I cannot see that this brings me any pleasure
  • why does it all have to be so hard
  • why haven't more people applied this in the first place
  • I have tried a thing like this before, and it did not work out
  • I do not see other people do it
  • I am fine the way I am
  • I do not like him/her
  • it is genetically determined, you cannot change that
  • as far as I can see, this is not scientifically proven
  • and what about all those wars and other misery
  • I just want to be right!
  • this is just a trend, it will pass
  • I want to, but I can't
  • why do you hear so little about this when it is as good as it suggests
  • I will wait
  • I will do this in my own way
  • I do not like to do this, it only brings me more unpleasantness
  • I do not have time for all this
  • I am fine, I am doing well. Of course there is the occasional cloud in the sky, but that is normal
  • this is not my cup of tea
  • ridiculous, this cannot work in a modern society
  • I do not want to have anything to do with this
  • it will fail sooner or later
  • this is more for those new-age people
  • I simply do not want to do this, now leave me alone!
  • what is in it for me
  • too vague for me
  • this will only make me weird in the eyes of my friends, I do not want that to happen
  • those people who live this way can say it well, but they themselves stumble every now and then as well
  • I know so many examples of people who do things like this and turn out to be a bunch of cheaters
  • I will fail anyhow
  • there is nothing wrong with me (and this is the only one that is really true!)



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