Wrapping the message

Your personality knows that, when he brings certain issues into the conversation, others will react to this. He also knows, from experience, this reaction often is not too pleasant, especially when the message seems unpleasant for others. And when someone else reacts angry, sad, irritated or such, this means an unpleasant outcome for your personality as well: not pleasant.

So what is more obvious than wrapping the message in such a way that the unpleasant reaction is avoided as much as possible, and when possible, even eliminated. The well-known ways to do so are for example: beating around the bush, vague, lying for the sake of good, all ways to meet this goal of your own personality. Which should lead to avoiding as much as possible unpleasant results for your personality.

Now what's next, are you to avoid doing this in the future? That is not what this is about. Use it to become thoroughly aware thát your personality does this, why he does so, and do realize what he attempts to achieve through it. Then choose to no longer want to repeat this, and ask your inner Self to deal with the situation at hand.

To begin with, this will bring you quite some mental freedom, since up till now your personality had to judge situations in advance, project his expectations on it, seek for the best way to deal with it, etc. Whilst you will notice that when you no longer do all this and you invite your inner Self to deal with the situation, this turns out not to be necessary at all. This does not mean that you will achieve each time outcomes to the liking of your personality, what it does mean, however, is that you no longer have to strive for achieving the goal that an outcome has to be pleasant for your personality. On top of that, an experience through your inner Self always comes with a form of Peace and certain Knowing which makes all the other things superfluous.